For the most part, I know what I want and I’m not afraid to say it. I’m totally NOT above begging for a kiss on my wedding day…or any day for the matter.
I have a hard time being friends with passive-aggressive people. I take that back…I have a hard time keeping my mouth SHUT around passive-aggressive people. Period. Enter the internet….this is all sooooooooooooo easy now. Now you can say a rude, vague comment on Facebook without saying WHO you are talking about, leaving EVERYONE to wonder if you are talking about the.
Here are a few examples:
1.”I don’t have any friends who REALLY know and love me.” 2.”I feel like everyone around me is pregnant, and I’m not. I can’t even be happy for them.” 3.”If I don’t get this chain letter back I will assume we aren’t friends. For real.” 4.”[Insert SUPER offensive comment followed with] Go ahead and block me, I don’t care.” 5. blah, blah, blah
Now, we all know that I am totally fine with opinions, we ALL have them. However, if you have something like this to say on FB I am probably going to unfriend you. Not probably…I’m going to do it. GASP. I don’t have time for that type of drama folks! And I think it is RUDE. Don’t steal other’s joy because YOU can’t handle life. And I’m not going to waste my time wondering if it is me.
Enter text messaging. Have Mercy. Oh have MERCY. The NEIGHBOR just won’t stop. STOP IT! She keeps sending me texts that are passive-aggressive:
“Do you ever leave your house anymore, I NEVER see you at the park.” “I don’t ask YOU to the park anymore because I don’t know if you are ANGRY.” “I don’t want to make you upset.” “Will you be upset if <child> has a runny nose.” “I feel like I’m losing all my friends.”
Um really? You told me you didn’t want to be my friend! That it wasn’t working out! Honestly, I’ve had to “let go and let God.” I know, you think it’s cliche, but yowza. I probably got 15 texts from her yesterday and this was only a WEEK after the “incident” happened. Don’t be passive-aggressive. Don’t send texts about me being upset when that has nothing to do with anything! It’s so weird.
Can’t we all just be friends? HA, as if we’d even want that….